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WeBlog Guide: Ana

Friendship Legacy:
In a word: relaxed. My friends always tell me I’m the calmest person they know, so I’m guessing that’s what they’ll remember about me.

Something You Should Know About Me: It’s easy to forgive myself when I make mistakes. After all, I’m only human!

I’m Pretty Great!
You know what I noticed? Even if a girl has done something really amazing (great grade on a test, awesome performance in gymnastics, whatever!), she rarely gives herself props. On the other hand, that same girl will be the first one to jump in with lots of self criticism, saying things like, "I'm so fat," or "I'm so 'not good' at math." That's just wrong!   Knowing your strengths and saying something good about yourself from time to time is important and not the same as boasting. It's OK to pat yourself on the back every once in a while!

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You're right about that one, at least when it comes to looks. Not sure why, but me and my friends always talk about how much we hate our looks, I don't know why. My VBF is gorgeous and she thinks her hair is ugly, her butt is too big, and so on--it's like we each try to be the *worst* at looking bad.
Posted Monday Feb 25, 7:59pm by myomy

Two of my friends are so competitive it gets to me.   One of them is always telling us how good her grades are, how many tips she got at her job for being nice, and how she's going to be accepted at every college she applies to. My other friend is really jealous of everything, but she'll never say it outright. Instead she just raises her eyebrows and goes: 'New cell phone?' or something like that in a kind of snide way.   Between the two of them, I never want to talk about anything controversial. Otherwise, we get along great.
Posted Tuesday Feb 26, 4:11pm by suziq

Hey Suzi, are you sure you get along great? Why does your friend brag so much? It's obnoxious. Plus, it doesn't sound realistic--how does she know she'll get into all those colleges? I think if she were really confident, she wouldn't be so annoying about it. Maybe she's the opposite--insecure, I mean.   Just a thought.
Posted Thursday Feb 28, 9:00pm by sweetiepie

Maybe . Or maybe girls are just super-sensitive about this stuff. I mean, shouldn't we be able to tell friends when we've done a good job on something?
Posted Saturday March 1, 9:57am by kitkat

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